Why Marriages Fail

Countless research studies and other investigations have been performed in order to gain insight into the reasons that marriages fail.  Part of the rationale for such research is that if information can be learned about problems, struggles, and the like that play a role in the dissolution of marriages then more attention can be given to identifying, preventing, and navigating through these difficult issues - thereby saving marriages.  Individuals who are sincerely committed to their partner and truly desire for their marriage to succeed can learn much from this type of information because it reveals areas to avoid and/or exercise caution.

Morning: 3 Most Important Times of Day

One should always be mindful of being loving, helpful, and respectful to his/her partner. Every day and every waking moment is important. We should never take one another for granted or misuse the time that we are blessed to have with our spouse and family. However, there are three specific times of the day that seem to hold special importance. Our words and actions during these times have significant ramifications. Indeed, how we handle these times can go a long way to either making or breaking our relationships.

Tough Times in Marriage

Most marriages will eventually face tough times in the form of serious hardship or tragedy. To name just a few examples, couples may face a serious illness or injury, the loss of a job, the closing of a family business, a house fire or flood, the death of a loved one, and so forth. When some couples encounter these and other types of heartrending circumstances they discover a deep bond that serves to make them closer and more committed than ever before. Unfortunately, other couples experience difficulties that drive them apart in similar circumstances. Why is it that some marriages thrive during tough times while others destruct?

Disillusionment in New Marriages

Studies show that sixty percent of couples in failed marriages experienced marital doubts and dissatisfaction within the first year of their marriage. In two-thirds of these cases these thoughts and feelings arise within the first six months. Marriage researchers have long identified the post-honeymoon phase – first two years of marriage – as one of the key benchmarks in which divorce is most likely to occur. [See related article.] Why are new marriages so vulnerable to the disillusionment and discouragement that can jeopardize a happy and lasting union?